Circle of Control · result
You lean on destiny
Some of what you call fate is yours to change.
Mostly blaming destiny
Destiny is doing more work in your life than it needs to. “It was meant to happen” feels comfortable because it removes responsibility, but it also removes your power. The book is gentle about this: we have all used that line.
“Destiny is a very convenient excuse. It removes responsibility.”Destiny vs FreeWill

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